Thursday, July 23, 2015

Because You Asked For It...

I remember reading a book called White Guilt in college. It’s been a long time since I’ve read it, but the basic views expressed in it were that many Americans try to overly make up for the racial sins of the past—sometimes to a fault. You had to read all of it, pay attention, and listen to what the author was really saying. There were quite a few students in the class, however, who hated the book because they said it made white people look bad, etc. I won’t go into all of that, because it’s not my main point. My main point is this: I later talked with the professor about it, and he expressed that those students had gotten so defensive about feeling attacked that they had missed the point of the book entirely, much to his disappointment.

This is what I feel has happened for Harper Lee’s new book, Go Set a Watchman. About a dozen people have asked me to express my thoughts on the novel, so here I go:

The controversy has been that Atticus is a racist in the new book. Everywhere I go lately, I hear much discord and disgust towards the book—all from people who haven’t read it. I’ve talked to many friends and even strangers about it, and so far, only one person had read it. It has only been out for a little over a week, yet so many individuals have shut their minds and will hear no more. Almost all of those people are getting their information second-hand. They haven’t paid attention long enough to understand what the author is actually trying to say.

Without giving any spoilers, this book isn’t actually about race as much as the hype makes it out to be. It’s not like To Kill a Mockingbird in that area. It’s about knocking down childhood idols and learning to think for ourselves. Scout, or as she’s called in this one, Jean Louise, actually is very similar to those who are currently criticizing the book. She sees something she doesn’t understand, but thinks that she does, and she quite literally freaks out—repeatedly. I’ve never seen such tantrums from a grown woman. She then shuts her mind and her eyes to any reason or explanation—just like the critics who refuse to read the book solely on the basis of what they’ve “heard” about it.

The novel does represent the two sides of the race battle, but I don’t think that’s exactly what Harper Lee was trying to express. In a lot of ways, this book is a late coming of age story. Scout is 26, but she’s still got a lot to learn. There were definitely moments where I related to her, where I understood her struggle to realize that her father is a flawed human being, that he’s old…that he won’t be around forever.

I related to her most, I think when her Uncle Jack (Atticus’ brother) said this to her:

“…now you, Miss, born with your own conscious, somewhere along the line fastened it like a barnacle onto your father’s. As you grew up, when you were grown, totally unknown to yourself, you confused your father with God. You never saw him as a man with a man’s heart, and a man’s failings—I’ll grant you it may have been hard to see, he makes so few mistakes, but he makes ‘em like all of us. You were an emotional cripple, leaning on him, getting the answers from him, assuming that your answers would always be his answers.”

                Maybe I’m a little bias towards this book because I, same age as Scout, have just realized that I too have done this. I lost my great grandmother last year, and it wasn’t until she passed that I realized that I had put her on a pedestal—that I had, as Uncle Jack says, “Confused” her with God. I refused to see her flaws and her failings. I idolized her. And when she died, it was more than just a normal human death to me. It was as if God had died.

And I think this was what Atticus was trying to break in Scout. She needed to see that he was a human man, flawed like the rest of us. And she needed to see that she had her own mind, and if her views didn’t line up with her father's, well…that was alright. She had to learn to make her own choices and stand for them.

And if you’re still hung up on the race relations, take a look at this: Scout looks up the word “bigot” in the story and reads aloud, “Noun. One obstinately or intolerably devoted to his own church, party, belief, or opinion.”


I won’t say anything more about the book, because as sainted LeVar Burton used to say on Reading Rainbow, “you don’t have to take my word for it.” Read it for yourself. Or not. Just be careful of how intolerant you are towards a novel you haven’t read. Or else, you might end up sounding a lot like that dictionary definition…

Friday, July 10, 2015

Ten Things I Learned While on Vacation

The woman standing on the right
had her bottoms on backwards.
1. Outdoor showers are wonderful. You get to be one with nature, under the sky…with birds flying over…and guys in cherry pickers next door, about to peep over the walls of the shower…


2. Victoria’s Secret is the god of bikinis.


3. Having your period while on a beach vacation can still be fun. And traumatizing. On second thought, I’m just going to go with traumatizing. Yeah…let's just leave it at that.


4. My new favorite beach game is, “Is That How You’re Really Supposed To Wear That Bathing Suit?” After a rousing round, we discovered a woman who had her bikini bottoms on backwards. More trauma followed.


5. There should be a reality show based upon how we vacation. It would be called Four Girls. One Bathroom. I’d watch the heck out of that.


6. The show Friends never, EVER gets old, and is strangely relatable now.


7. If you sit at the edge of the surf, you will get saggy, sand-filled bottoms. You will then look like a toddler with a drooping diaper, and it is impossible to politely remove the sand.


8. Due to lack of bathrooms and mirrors at our beach house, I brought a portable makeup mirror with me. We then learned that the mirror had two sides, the normal side, and the scary, magnified side. Um…anyone have wrinkle cream?


9. I live at a lake…in a beach town…and vacation in a different beach town. I just love the sand, and the sun, and the water.


10. I will never understand how anyone can live far from the ocean.

Bonus: We also wear matching shirts
(and lockets...but you can't see those).