You Just Can’t Win in Life: Girl Problems

When a girl posts too much about her emotions people say that she’s just looking for attention.

When a girl keeps things bottled up inside, people say that it’s unhealthy and that she should express herself.

You just can’t win.

When a girl’s skirts are a little short or her chest is so large that she has cleavage even in a T-shirt, people say that she is “loose” or “trying to get a man.”

When a girl dresses conservatively she’s called a “nun” and told that “she’ll never get a man that way.”

You just can’t win.

When it’s a girl’s desire to get married and have babies, people say that she’s “missing out on life” and needs to “have a career first.”

When a girl wants a career and has no immediate plans for a family, people wonder what’s wrong with her and ask her why she doesn't want babies.

You just can’t win.

“She’s too social. She’s simply trying to be the life of the party because that’s all she’s got.”

“She too quiet. Why doesn't she get out more?”

You just can’t win.

So who cares what people think. Be yourself. Rebel. Love. Cry when you feel like it and don’t be afraid to tell people when you’re hurt. Be quiet when you feel like being silent, but don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself when you need to. Lead the life that GOD wants you to lead, because at the end of the day, doing God’s will is really all that matters. All of those other voices are just voices in the din, trying to drown out what really matters.